Underestimated

"How old are your kids?" which is inevitably followed by the words or the facial expression of "How old are you?"

I can't begin to tell you the number of times this conversation has happened over the last few years. Genetics and a healthy lifestyle has blessed me with an appearance far younger than my actual age. Although many women would love to look younger than they are, I find it difficult for people to take me seriously when they believe I am still a "child".

There was a post on FaceBook that I came across which I immediately connected with.

Since I was very young I have observed everything around me. I learned many things about life, relationships, health, business... and the list goes on, simply by watching, listening, and investigating things that were heard or seen by the people around me. Although I may look young, I have a vast amount of knowledge and wisdom that few people benefit from because they underestimate how someone "so young" could have anything worthwhile to contribute.

Are there people in your life that you underestimate or even ignore because you see them as too young or inexperienced? Take an opportunity to listen to what they have to say. They may just surprise you with their insight.

To School or Not to School

Ever since my daughter was getting ready to start school three years ago, I have wrestled with the idea of homeschooling. I had a limited experience with homeschooling when I was growing up. My mom taught my brother and I when I was in senior kindergarten and grade two. I have fond memories of working with my family in the mornings and being able to play or go on field trips during the afternoon.


It seems that almost every week there are stories about cut-backs in the public schools, children attacking the teachers, and don't get me started on the overall lack of respect for elders in today's children. The more I look at how the education system is lacking, the more I want to teach my children so I can make sure that they learn all that they can.

With the flexibility of my home business and the ability to travel often, having the children home schooled seems like a great option that will allow the children to experience life. It also keeps me from having to take them out of school whenever we'd like to travel for business or pleasure, which right now is a minimum of two weeks during the school year.

I spent a good time researching various different methods of teaching and available curriculum options. I've read up on how-to and organizing your day, etc.

So where does this leave me. I'm currently trying to put together a "trial" summer school program to see how homeschooling works for both the kids and myself. Doing it over the summer time will allow me to try homeschooling without having to take them out of school first. I am still asking around for advice on homeschooling and being able to successful have time to run a business from my home.

Have any ideas or helpful information, please pass it on to me.

A bit about me

To understand where I'm coming from, I believe it is important for you to know a little about me. The following information, although personal, is helpful in understanding my life and how my thoughts are influenced.

I am the proud mother of two young children, a 6-year-old daughter and a 4-year-old son. I maintain joint custody of the children with their father but they spend their school days and most evenings at my house. My partner, Kris, is living with us and is a great support for myself and my children.

During the weekdays, I am a full-time student studying to be a Massage Therapist. Kris works from home with what time he can find between making meals and bringing my children to school. He has been very gracious in taking care of my children so that I can get my education and change my family’s future.

As you can see, like many other parents, my days and nights are full. I must continually manage my budget and my time, not only at school and with work but also with my family. And still find some time for myself to maintain my sanity.